{"id":5975,"date":"2024-09-01T16:19:28","date_gmt":"2024-09-01T16:19:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vana.storiesforimpact.com\/?p=5975"},"modified":"2024-10-27T07:03:51","modified_gmt":"2024-10-27T07:03:51","slug":"miks-on-lastega-seksuaalsusest-justkui-raske-raakida","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vana.storiesforimpact.com\/et\/miks-on-lastega-seksuaalsusest-justkui-raske-raakida\/","title":{"rendered":"Anal\u00fc\u00fcs: Miks on lastega seksuaalsusest justkui raske r\u00e4\u00e4kida?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Tundub, et Eestis r\u00e4\u00e4givad seksist ja seksuaalsusest k\u00f5ik inimesed. Ajakirjanikud ja seltskonnastaarid, gurud ja selgeltn\u00e4gijad, lauljad ja n\u00e4itlejad, isegi t\u0161ellom\u00e4ngija(d). Huvitav, kas seksist on \u00fcldse veel midagi kellegi poolt kellegagi r\u00e4\u00e4kimata?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cMis m\u00f5ttes?\u201d podcastis otsustasime seksuaalsusest juttu teha kuulajate soovil. Seekord valisime kevadisest ideekorjest laekunud ettepanekutest uurimiseks v\u00e4ga valusa, ent selle laia leviku ja tagaj\u00e4rgede raskuse t\u00f5ttu \u00fcliolulise teema: <strong>laste seksuaalse v\u00e4\u00e4rkohtlemise.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Loomulikult tuli lisaks probleemi avamisele episoodis palju juttu ka ennetusest ja lahendustest. \u00dcheks ekspertide l\u00e4bivaks soovituseks kujunes n\u00f5uanne lapsevanematele: \u201cR\u00e4\u00e4kige oma lapsega seksist!\u201d. Saatek\u00fclalised t\u00f5id ka ilmekaid n\u00e4iteid, kuidas kasv\u00f5i kehaosade funktsioonidest r\u00e4\u00e4kimata j\u00e4tmine v\u00f5ib soodustada lapse sattumist seksuaalse v\u00e4\u00e4rkohtlemise ohvriks v\u00f5i lapse enda poolt &#8211; sealhulgas tahtmatult &#8211; teise lapse v\u00e4\u00e4rkohtlemist. Ignoreeriv v\u00f5i hukkam\u00f5istev reageerimine eakohasele huvile seksuaalsuse vastu v\u00f5ib aga lapsele tekitada traumaatilise kogemuse, mis h\u00e4irib tema edasist toimetulekut suhete ja seksuaalsuse valdkonnas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ka <strong>teaduskirjanduses tuuakse v\u00e4lja, et avatud ja sagedased vestlused seksuaaltervise teemal v\u00f5ivad m\u00f5jutada positiivselt mitmeid noorukite seksuaalse arengu n\u00e4itajaid<\/strong>:\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>hilisem seksuaalsuhetega alustamine,&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>sagedasem kondoomi kasutamine,&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>v\u00e4iksem seksuaalpartnerite arv,&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>madalam risk suguhaigustesse nakatumiseks,<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>valmisolek arutada seksuaalsusega seotud teemasid oma romantiliste partneritega.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Lastega <strong>seksist r\u00e4\u00e4kimata j\u00e4tmisel v\u00f5ivad olla vastupidised tagaj\u00e4rjed ehk see nimekiri p\u00f6\u00f6rdub negatiivseks.<\/strong> Sealhulgas tuleb osadest uuringutest v\u00e4lja \u00fcllatav j\u00e4reldus, et seksiga seotud v\u00f5imalike halbade tagaj\u00e4rgedega hirmutamine lapsevanemate poolt\u00a0 soodusta turvalisemat seksuaalk\u00e4itumist, vaid t\u00f5en\u00e4osus riskantseteks otsusteks hoopis suureneb.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Enne kui anda kellelegi n\u00f5u oma lastega eakohasel viisil seksist r\u00e4\u00e4kida, tasub aga uurida p\u00f5hjuseid, miks seda siis ikkagi ei tehta. 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